Today, I am reading and commenting on  Proverbs 5-8.

The writer warns against adultery.  He speaks of the lure of an adulterous woman, but the same thing holds true of adulterous men.  He writes about how they offer what a pleasurable experience which disguises pain, hurt, and a loss of dignity.  The writer contrasts getting involved with an adulterer to acting with discipline.  He tells us how much better living a disciplined life is than living one of instant gratification.  Instead, the writer tells us we should reserve our most intimate activities to one to whom we have committed ourselves and who has committed themselves to us.  Our ways will be examined by God, and the wicked will be destroyed by their lack of discipline.  The writer speaks of how wisdom calls out to us.  As he does so, he reminds us once again that  being inclined to evil and/or being morally deficient leads one to act foolishly.  Those who give in to temptation have failed to exercise wisdom and have allowed themselves to be deceived by foolishness.  Those who act righteously and seek justice (and not justice in the abstract, but specific case by case justice) learn wisdom.

I use the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

Today, I am reading and commenting on  Proverbs 5-8.

The writer makes two main points in today’s passage.  The one which takes up the bulk of the passage tells us that the wise person avoids adultery.  For the other point he writes that wisdom calls out loudly to any who listen, that it does not take much effort to acquire wisdom.  So, although wisdom tells us to work hard, we do not have to work hard to learn the value of doing so.  Having said that about the two main points I want to focus on something which is almost an aside.  At one point the writer tells us:

There are six things the Lord hates,
seven that are detestable to him:
haughty eyes,
a lying tongue,
hands that shed innocent blood,
a heart that devises wicked schemes,
feet that are quick to rush into evil,
a false witness who pours out lies
and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.

Most of those things are the subject of many sermons and homilies.  But we do not often talk about how God detests those who stir up conflict between others.  This is not someone who gets into conflict with others, but someone who gets others into conflict with each other.  When someone tells you that the solution to your problems is to be mad at someone else, they are not trying to help you.  We do not help someone by telling them that they can solve their problems by attacking someone else.  Throughout the Book of Proverbs, and the rest of the Bible, we learn that wisdom teaches us that we need to take responsibility for that which we can control.  The Bible tells us repeatedly that the best thing we can do to address our problems is to put our trust in God, and do the good He guides us to do.  And the best thing we can do to help others is to give them direct aid, not try to get them to blame someone else for their problems.

I use the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

Today, I am reading and commenting on  Proverbs 5-8.

The proverb writer in today’s passage spends a lot of time warning against adultery.  He goes on to link committing adultery to a lack of discipline.  I also find it interesting that the phrasing suggests that the writer endorses monogamy: the writer tells us to be satisfied with the wife (singular) of our youth despite the fact that tradition attributes these proverbs to King Solomon.  After indicating that being adulterous indicates a lack of discipline, the writer warns against a few other symptoms of lack of discipline: lack of industriousness (or laziness), and being deceitful.  Then he returns to warning against adultery, against allowing our sexual desires to govern our lives.  The writer warns us that all of these poor decisions result from not listening to wisdom.  Further, the writer goes on to tell us that wisdom calls out to us if we will but listen and look for it.  Acquiring wisdom does not require hard effort, or seeking obscure sources of knowledge.  Wisdom can be acquired merely by being open to the lessons around us.

I use the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

Today, I am reading and commenting on  Proverbs 5-8.

While these proverbs address a young man and warn him against an adulterous woman, in today’s society the same message should be heeded by either sex against adulterous members of either sex.  The writer connects such behavior with a lack of discipline and warns that both (adulterous behavior and lack of discipline) will lead one to destruction.  Instead of allowing ourselves to become involved with the adulterous, let us embrace wisdom.  Wisdom will teach us to avoid becoming troublemakers and villains.  Further it teaches us to avoid such people.  But for me, the greatest part of these comes in chapter 8 where the writer tells us that wisdom is not only there for those who seek it, but is calling out to the simple, inviting them to join her (wisdom), prudence, knowledge, and discretion.  The writer goes on to tell us that wisdom abhors and flees from those who are proud and arrogant, or who practice evil behavior or perverse speech.

I use the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

I am using the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

Today, I am reading and commenting on Proverbs 5-8.

Today’s proverbs start out with a warning against adultery, but the entire passage contains warnings against all forms of immorality and sexual promiscuity.  Part of its warning against adultery is based on fear of a jealous husband, but there is a lot more to it than that.  Truly infidelity, adultery, immorality result from a lack of self-control and discipline.  Or perhaps it would be more accurate to say that they result from the failure to value self-control and discipline.

A few days ago I was at an activity where many of those there were into polyamory.  One of the people there was discussing how they wanted a relationship, but had been unable to find someone to have it with.  One of the others said that their problem was that most of the people they associated with were into polyamory.  The person said they were unsure they could handle that sort of relationship.  The others then encouraged them to give it a try and if they could not handle it give it up.  Others spoke of the relative merits of polyamory.  I regret that I could think of no way to encourage her to be patient and wait for the right person.  Today’s proverbs remind me that I failed to share God’s wisdom in that situation and I deeply regret that.