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July 7, 2015 Bible Study — The Prayer Of Jabez

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Proverbs 18:19

    Take care not to offend your friends. There is nothing more difficult than regaining the trust of one whose friendship you have lost by giving offense. Be careful when arguing with friends, in such situations it is very easy to give offense unintentionally. If you do so, do not be too proud to apologize immediately.

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Psalm 5:1-12

    There are a lot of things I thought of writing about this psalm, but every time I read it again I was convicted by one line.

Each morning I bring my requests to you and wait expectantly.

When I read that I was reminded that I do not approach the Lord in prayer as I should, nor as much as I should. I ask the Holy Spirit to transform me so that my first desire each morning is to go to the Lord in prayer.

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Acts 25:1-27

    When a new governor, Festus, took over the political/religious leaders of Jerusalem attempted to get him transferred to Jerusalem for trial. They planned to arrange an ambush to kill Paul while he was being transported to Jerusalem. Festus rejects the Jewish leaders request and insists that they bring their accusations before him at his court in Caesarea. When the Jewish leaders made their accusations against Paul before Festus they were unable to prove any of them. When Festus tried to convince Paul to go up to Jerusalem to face trial, Paul realized that Festus was not going to release him. Therefore Paul asserted his right as a Roman citizen to appeal to Caesar.
    Festus admitted in his consultation with Herod Agrippa that he had no basis for continuing to hold Paul. He asked Herod Agrippa to turn the Jewish accusations into something which represented a violation of Roman Law. I have been struggling to get to the point I saw in this passage. Festus had no particular animosity to Paul or to Christianity, but he was convinced that in some way Paul must be a bad person to have generated the animosity the priests and Jewish religious leaders felt toward him, even though they could not provide evidence to support their accusations. We see the same reaction in people today. They hear the accusations made against Christians and are convinced that, while none of the Christians they personally know are like that, Christians, in general, are guilty of the fault being expressed.

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1 Chronicles 4:5-5:17

    Today’s passage continues with the genealogies, but stuck in the middle of them is this passage:

There was a man named Jabez who was more honorable than any of his brothers. His mother named him Jabez because his birth had been so painful. He was the one who prayed to the God of Israel, “Oh, that you would bless me and expand my territory! Please be with me in all that I do, and keep me from all trouble and pain!” And God granted him his request.

Bruce Wilkinson wrote an entire book around this prayer, which I think makes too much of it. However, there is something there for us to meditate on. The first point is that Jabez was honorable. IF we expect God to answer our prayers, we need to be honorable, and that by God’s standards of honorable, not just man’s standards.
    In order to understand the value of this prayer we need to look at the two sentences in reverse order. In the second sentence, Jabez asked God to be with him in all he did. That is certainly a good thing to do, but if we want God to be with us in everything we do, then we need to be sure that everything we do is with God. That is, we need to make sure that everything we do is what God wills us to do. If we desire that God be with us in all we do and act accordingly, God will bless us. I am not going to expound on Jabez’ request that God expand his territory, nor on his request that God keep him free of all trouble and pain because not everyone is called down such a path.

July 7, 2014 Bible Study — Are We Honorable?

For today, One Year Bible Online links here. I find it interesting that today if we add together the numerical value of the day and the month it equals the last two digits of the year. I have no idea why I find that interesting, but I do.

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Proverbs 18:19

    We need to be more careful not to offend our friends than strangers because, while it may be harder to offend a friend than a stranger, it is immensely harder to win back a friend once they have been offended. If someone I do not know does something that makes me suspicious of their motives it is easier for them to overcome that suspicion than it is for someone I trusted who does the same thing.

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Psalm 5:1-12

    There is so much in this psalm. I will highlight today a couple of lines which I wish to model in my life:

Each morning I bring my requests to you and wait expectantly.

I will start my days by coming to God in prayer.
Make your way plain for me to follow.

As God makes clear to me the way He wants me to go, I will follow that path.
all who love your name may be filled with joy.

I know that doing as God desires will lead me to experience greater joy than any other course I may choose.

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Acts 25:1-27

    When Governor Festus took over from Felix, the Jewish Council attempted to resurrect their plan to ambush and kill Paul as he was transferred from Caesarea to Jerusalem. Festus instead asked the leaders of the Council to come to Caesarea to make their case. The Council did as Festus asked. When the Council made their accusations before Festus, they offered no proof. Festus, rather than dismissing the case for lack of evidence, suggested that Paul be transferred to Jerusalem for trial. Paul, recognizing that Festus was not going to release him, used his rights as a Roman citizen to appeal to Caesar. Later, Festus claimed that the only reason he did not release Paul was because Paul had appealed to Caesar and thus Festus was no longer free to release him. How often do we attempt to blame our actions on others?

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1 Chronicles 4:5-5:17

    The passage continues to list genealogies. However, it includes a short two verse reference to a man named Jabez. There was a book written about this man and the prayer he prayed which was a big deal among certain circles for a period of time. I will say that I think studying what Jabez prayed is less important than why God granted his request. The passage tells us that Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. Are we more honorable than our “brothers”, those who live around us?

July 7, 2013 Bible Study — Be With Me In All That I Do

     I am using One Year Bible Online for my daily Bible study. For today, One Year Bible Online links here. I have found that by writing this daily blog of what I see when I read these scriptures, I get more out of them. I hope that by posting these ruminations others may get some benefit as well. If you have any thoughts or comments regarding these verses or what I have written about them, please post them.

Magrat on the sidewalk
Magrat on the sidewalk

1 Chronicles 4:5-5:17

     Another passage that lists some of the descendants of Jacob. This passage also contains the verse that was the basis for the book, “The Prayer of Jabez”. This book was vastly popular among certain types of Christians for awhile (this is not intended as a criticism of those who liked the book). There is something to be learned from this verse. Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. It is in the context of being an honorable man that Jabez prayed his prayer. If we are honorable and obedient to God, He will grant our prayers as well. The key to Jabez’ prayer was that he asked God to be with him in all that he did. The only way that God will be with us in all that we do, is if all that we do is in service to God’s will. I will pray to God that He guide me so that all that I do is His will. I know that the only way I can accomplish that is through the power of the Holy Spirit.

Magrat comes across the yard
Magrat comes across the yard

Acts 25:1-27

     When the new governor, Festus, arrived the Jewish leaders asked him to transfer Paul to Jerusalem. Luke tells us that this was so that they could have him killed en route. Festus, however, tells them that Paul is in Caesarea and since he, Festus, will be returning there shortly, they should come to Caesarea to make their case against Paul. When Festus returned to Caesarea he brought Paul before him to face the charges made by the Jewish leaders. The Jewish leaders were unable to prove their charges and Paul proclaimed that he had broken no Jewish or Roman law. When Festus asked if he would be willing to go to Jerusalem to stand trial before Festus, Paul appealed to the Emperor as a Roman citizen.
     When King Agrippa came to visit Festus a few days later, Festus discussed the case with him. Festus said that the charges against Paul were not what he expected, but rather were about minutia of the Jewish religion and Paul’s claim that Jesus was alive. He said that he asked Paul to go to Jerusalem for trial because he could think of no other way to investigate the charges. However, since Paul appealed to Caesar, Festus ordered him held in custody until he could arrange to send him to Rome.
     King Agrippa expressed a desire to hear Paul speak, so Festus arranged for Paul to come before both of them the following day. Festus told those assembled with himself and King Agrippa that the Jewish leaders had demanded Paul’s death, but that he had found none of the charges deserving of death. Festus went on to imply that if Paul had not appealed to Caesar, he would have released him (although the evidence of everything that had transpired up to this point suggests that such was not the case). Festus continues by saying that while he is going to send Paul to Rome and Caesar, he does not what to write by way of explaining what Paul is charged with. He asks that those present examine the case with him so that they, especially King Agrippa, can help him compose a letter for Caesar’s court explaining the charges against Paul.

Magrat stops to check something out
Magrat stops to check something out

Psalm 5:1-12

     This psalm is one among many where the psalmist requests that God listen to his prayers. Today, this appears to be a request made because the psalmist recognizes that God is under no obligation to listen to his prayers, let alone answer them. Nevertheless, the psalmist expresses no doubt but that the Lord will listen to and answer his prayers. He proclaims that each morning he brings his requests before the Lord and waits patiently for God to answer. The psalmist tells us that God detests the sins of the wicked, but that we can worship God because of His love.
     In the heart of the psalm is the prayer that I strive to pray every day:

Lead me in the right path, O Lord,

Make your way plain for me to follow.

I cry out to the Lord that He make His way plain for me to follow. Show me, oh God, what you want me to do. Make plain to me the actions you wish me to take. Take me by the hand and lead me.

Magrat in the garden
Magrat in the garden

Proverbs 18:19

     Today’s proverb is a timeless truth to which I can add nothing. I strive to avoid offending my friends, but I find it difficult when they fail to return the favor.

July 7, 2012 Bible Study

     I am using One Year Bible Online for my daily Bible study. For today, One Year Bible Online links here. I have found that by writing this daily blog of what I see when I read these scriptures, I get more out of them. I hope that by posting these ruminations others may get some benefit as well. If you have any thoughts or comments regarding these verses or what I have written about them, please post them.

1 Chronicles 4:5-5:17

     Today’s passage recounts more on the descendants of Judah and lists descendants of Simeon, Reuben and Gad. The only thing in this passage that is not just a dry recounting of lineage and historical information is the prayer of Jabez. We are told that he was more honorable than his brothers and that he prayed this prayer, “Oh, that you would bless me and expand my territory! Please be with me in all that I do, and keep me from all trouble and pain!” We are told that God granted his request. A book was written about this prayer suggesting that Christians pray it daily. While the interpretation given in the book is not bad, I believe a large part of its popularity was due to this prayer readily lending itself to a “prosperity gospel” interpretation. Personally, I think that the Lord’s prayer given by Jesus to His disciples as a model prayer is a much better prayer for Christians to try and say every day.

Acts 25:1-27

     This passage tells us what happened when the governor who was in charge when Paul was arrested was replaced by Festus. When Festus visits Jerusalem shortly after arriving, the Jewish leaders request that he transfer Paul to Jerusalem. Festus refuses since Paul is in Caesarea, where Festus will be returning shortly. Festus tells the Jewish leaders that they can make their accusations against Paul before him there. When the Jewish leaders make their case against Paul before Festus, they are unable to support any of their charges. Festus attempts to get Paul to agree to a transfer of his trial to Jerusalem. Paul refuses and appeals to Caesar. Before he appeals to Caesar, Paul points out that Festus has found him guilty of nothing worthy of death and that if he is sent to Jerusalem, he will be killed. When King Agrippa comes to visit with Festus, Festus discusses the case with him. Festus implies that if Paul had not appealed to Caesar, he might go free. However, this is contrary to the evidence since Paul has been in prison for over two years at this point and neither Felix nor Festus has found him guilty of anything despite both holding trials for him. It is clear that the Roman governors are not going to let Paul go free (unless, perhaps, he bribes them).
     King Agrippa expressed an interest in hearing Paul speak, so Festus agreed to arrange for it the following day. The next day, King Agrippa and his sister came to the auditorium with great pomp, accompanied by an escort of military officers and important functionaries. It is not clear from the passage who was the intended audience of this pomp, whether it was Festus or Paul. I suspect it was a little bit of both.

Psalm 5:1-12

     The psalmist declares that each morning he brings his requests to the Lord in prayer and then waits expectantly for God’s reply. He asks God to make His way for him to follow. I echo that. I struggle with a tendency to take the easy path, if God does not make His way clear, I will follow the path of least resistance. If we follow the Lord’s guidance, we will find safety from those who seek to harm us and victory over the wicked.

Proverbs 18:19

     Today’s proverb tells us how damaging an argument can be to friendship. I have seen several of my friends destroy friendships of long standing because they were unwilling to apologize for hurtful things that they said. The hurtful things were true, but they could have been said more gently and perhaps would have led to a positive change in the person they were directed at if they had been said that way. As it is, friendships of long standing were destroyed and souls were hardened even further against Christ.